Domestic abuse, the facts

Domestic abuse, the facts

Domestic abuse is a gendered crime which is deeply rooted in the societal inequality between women and men. It takes place ‘because she is a woman and happens disproportionately to women’ (CEDAW, 1992).

Women are more likely than men to experience multiple incidents of abuse, different types of domestic abuse (intimate partner violence, sexual assault and stalking) and in particular sexual violence. Any woman can experience domestic abuse regardless of race, ethnic or religious group, sexuality, class, or disability, but some women who experience other forms of oppression and discrimination which can affect their experiences of abuse and may face further barriers to disclosing abuse and finding help. 

 Domestic abuse exists as part of violence against women and girls, which also includes different forms of family violence such as forced marriage, female genital mutilation and so called “honour crimes” that are perpetrated primarily by family members, often with multiple perpetrators. 

The facts

  • Nearly a third of women (30.3%) have experienced domestic abuse since the age of 16 (ONS, 2025a). 
  • Over the three-year period between the year ending (YE) March 2022 to YE March 2024, on average, at least one woman a week was killed by a male partner/ex-partner (ONS, 2025b). 
  • A minimum of £516 million is needed to be invested per year to fund specialist domestic abuse services for women and their children across England (Women’s Aid, 2024).  
  • The rate of Suspected Victim Suicide after Domestic Abuse (SVSDA) continues to increase. For the second year, SVSDA has surpassed intimate partner homicides as the leading form of domestic abuse related death (Hoeger, K. et al., 2025). The prevalence of coercive controlling behaviour, non-fatal strangulation and separation is even higher in suspected victim suicides following domestic abuse than in intimate partner homicides (Hoeger, K. et al., 2024). 
  • Of the 888 women killed by ex/partner between 2009 and 2018, 43% had separated, or taken steps to separate, from the perpetrator (Femicide Census, 2020).  
  • Using On Track national data as our baseline data, we calculate that all refuge services in England supported an estimated 11,305 women and 12,866 children in 2023-24, and that all community-based support services supported an estimated 112,866 women and 146,726 children (Women’s Aid, 2025).
  • 60.1% of all the referrals received in refuge services using On Track were rejected for various reasons. The main reason why referrals to refuge services were rejected was a lack of space or capacity, with 45.7% of rejected referrals being for this reason (Women’s Aid, 2025). 

Find out more

What is domestic abuse?

We define domestic abuse as an incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive, threatening, degrading and violent behaviour, including sexual violence. 

How common is domestic abuse?

We know from our work, and the work of the Women’s Aid federation of services, that domestic abuse is very common, however this is often difficult to accurately quantify.

Why do we say domestic abuse is gendered?

Every case of domestic abuse should be taken seriously and each individual given access to the support they need.

The impact of domestic abuse

When thinking about the consequences of domestic abuse, it is important to consider the impact on the individual survivor and her family and children.

What services are there and how are they funded?

Domestic abuse services provide a wide range of information and support including refuge accommodation, helplines, outreach support and floating support.

Myths about domestic abuse

There are many myths about domestic abuse and its causes. Help us challenge some of the most widely believed and deep-rooted misconceptions.

Coercive control

Domestic abuse isn’t always physical. Coercive control is an act or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten their victim.

References 
Femicide Census (2020). UK Femicides 2009-2018. Femicide Census. Available online. 
Hoeger, K., Gutierrez-Munoz, C., Sadullah, A., Edwards, T., Blackwell, L., Bates, L. and Whitaker, A. (2024) Vulnerability Knowledge and Practice Programme (VKPP) Domestic Homicides and Suspected victim suicides 2020-2023 Year 3 Report. Home Office: Available online. 
Hoeger, K. Gutierrez-Munoz, C. Sadullah, A. Whitaker, A. (2025). Vulnerability Knowledge and Practice Programme (VKPP) Domestic Homicides and Suspected Victim Suicides 2020-2024 Year 4 Report. Available online.   
Office for National Statistics (ONS). (2025a). Redevelopment of domestic abuse statistics: research update May 2025. Available online.    
Office for National Statistics (ONS). (2025b) Domestic abuse victim characteristics, England and Wales: year ending March 2025. Available online.   
 Women’s Aid. (2024). Women’s Aid updates proposed funding settlement. Available online.    
Women’s Aid. (2025) The Annual Audit 2025. Bristol: Women’s Aid. Available online.  
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